We all know what a little innocent lie is. To be honest, we’ve all been used to it. According to psychological studies, people in marriage lie to their spouses on average three times a week.
Sometimes it’s really an innocent lie for good, for example, not to embarrass a spouse or to prevent a quarrel over nothing. But there are important things that you should never lie about, and unfortunately, some of these points are still widely thought to be acceptable for lying.
We’ve found 10 things you should never lie about to a partner, because lying, in this case, can ruin good relationships. Scroll down to learn the details.
1. Be honest with him
Like it or not, the experience of past relationships-whether they are happy or tragic-is essential for everyone. So, as we meet the new man, we, even freed from the remains of old feelings and ready for a new twist in life, still carrying on the shoulders of a backpack full of the past. If you really love him, he should know all this stuff from you.
2. Your Age
You don’t know which one of your men will eventually be your Mr. Right, so don’t make yourself a liar in advance. If you tell him you’re 25, what are you going to do when he finds out that you are 27? He will probably think that you’re capable of cheating.
3. That you are keen on sport
If you do not take care of your body, you have to admit it. You have a problem with weight or not, you don’t have to invent sessions that you don’t really do.
4. Past sexual relations
Remember, your partner has a right to know everything about your intimate life because now you are very close. You should not discuss it in details, but at least the number of partners is worth saying.
5. Cooking Skills
Here, as with age, if you’re lying, sooner or later, the truth will come out anyway. You’re going to be so embarrassed!
6. About your life after marriage
It is a difficult subject, but if you understand that the partner is ready to marry you once, you have the right not to hold your thoughts on this subject. But don’t keep doing this for too long!
7. Your attitude towards his friends
Be careful, because for men their friends are very important! If you can’t explain why you don’t like a person, you better be silent, but if you have concrete arguments, you should gently tell them to your loved one. Don’t be a hypocrite.
8. His relationship with other women
Don’t make jealous scenes, but always talk about what’s bothering you. If you can see that your man is too flirty, then stop him in time. He needs to know how to behave.
9. Your relationship with the ex
If it happens so that you’re still friends with someone, your current partner must know first and foremost!
10. About a real self
Never pretend to be someone else. Show the lover your real weaknesses and strengths. If he loves you, he’ll accept you as you are!